Saturday, May 27, 2006

Saturday morning photos

I have added to our May photos....the latest stuff starts here:
http://thetaggs.smugmug.com/gallery/1419938/22/71837974

Monday, May 22, 2006

This weekend

This was such a fun weekend. CT's soccer team went to Conway for the President's Cup. Mike's mom came and stayed with the kids (thank you, thank you, thank you!) and we only took CT and Mal. I'll try to summarize without bragging too much......

It started out a little rough b/c Mike had to work late. We had a 3 hour drive and didn't leave until after 9pm. We were pretty tired that night and had to be on the field at 8:15 the next morning. Our hotel room was 30 minutes away so it was an early morning.

The first game we tied. That was a disappointment but better than a loss. They played again in the afternoon and WON!! We made it to the semifinals on Sunday and then lost. Too bad. Even though we lost our team played great and Christian was especially fun to watch. My favorite play was in the last game when he got this big break away, faked out several players, took it up the field, and got off a shot. His foot work is so impressive. Can you tell I'm a proud Momma?

It was disappointing to lose on Sunday but nice to get home to see everyone else. We had a nice afternoon at home spending time with G'ma. What a great weekend.

Monday, May 15, 2006

#5 is 2 wheelin!

View more pictures of this event and other stuff here: http://thetaggs.smugmug.com/gallery/1419938/3

While I (dad) was cutting down limbs in the infamous "backyard", #5 decided that he wanted to take off his training wheels. I told him that I was kind of busy and that if he could get them off that I would help him out a little. I don't quite know how he got them off...but he did. :-) He did fairly well in the back yard and was able to pedal for short distances. Seeming happy with his accomplishment, he moved on to something else. As I finished up trimming in the backyard we migrated toward the front. #5's eyes lit up again and asked if he could take his bike and try it on the street. I agreed and here are the results from his attempts.



As the day went on, he became more daring and ventured to the neighbors driveway. It's a fairly steep driveway that propels him at quite a good clip into the street and down the hill. Fun! Well, since this is a relatively new skill he's acquired let's just say his speed to turn ratio is a bit out of specification. These next few photos will show his progress in this adventure.






as you can see....a definite miscalculation.

Here's his next attempt (got to give him credit for not giving up!!)


He made it a little further. But still the same result...whack! Right into the van. If you know #5 then you know he is very intelligent and it doesn't take him long to figure out a problem. So, he looks at me and says, "Dad, we need to move the van."
lol...

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

Our backyard

When we bought this house the only thing I noticed about the backyard was that it was flat (easy to mow) and big enough for kids. Little did I know all the fun it would be.

We have one big shade tree in the middle of the yard. The kids named it Greenland. The little boys try to swing really high and touch their toes to the branches. They can't reach it just yet.

The gate is named The Black Gate of Mordor. Ever see Lord of the Rings?

We have a big overgrown tree/bush in the back corner. The kids named it George Bush and claim that it's the best thing about the whole yard. I have to admit it is a great place to play. You can duck and walk under it and you are totally surrounded by the leaves and branches. It's sort of like a hide out. The branches are low enough yet strong enough to climb into. Underneath there is dirt to dig and roots that make a little stream when it rains or when you pour water into it.

Now there is a robin's nest in George Bush. It's just low enough that you can barely see two baby birds in there when you stand on your tippy toes. The funny part is that whenever the little boys go over there to play the mamma bird swoops them! They run out laughing and squealing. She has taken over George Bush!

See more photos (Mallory included) on the May photo site....
http://thetaggs.smugmug.com/gallery/1419938

Saturday, May 06, 2006

Victory!!

Anger is something that I've been praying about for our family this year. God says that anger doesn't bring about a righteous life. I want that righteous life that God desires and I want to be able to control my emotions.

I am usually not the kind of person to be loud and yell. Usually I will give a longer-than-necessary speech (complete with "the tone") or roll my eyes. I also do not call it "anger" in most cases, but frustration. I have learned that frustration is just a prettier word for the same thing and I should just call it what it is. In any case, it's a bad example to my kids. My heart's desire is to be able correct them in love, without a hint of pride or an I-told-you-so, and to remember that repetition is the mother of learning.

Today I was put to the test. Without mentioning names, a child of mine had a great idea that did not turn out so well. It also had the potential of making a lot of unnecessary work. Thankfully the unnecessary work did not materialize. I was mad and wondered how this child could have overlooked such an obvious (to me) outcome. It was a situation where the child knew the wrong but my pride wanted to "let 'em have it" anyway. I prayed and the Lord gave me restraint with my words. I wanted more. I wanted my voice to not even betray my emotion..... so I was quiet and just kept praying!

When I did speak, it sounded sweet! I can't tell you what a victory this is. My child's heart was right, the action just didn't turn out right. If I had spoken in anger I think it would've done much to discourage, not much to help. I really want to judge the hearts of my children more than the blundered actions. I praise the Lord for this victory!! I am going to start praying now for the next test!

Maegan's Good Day

I have to brag on Maegan today. It's been a good day for her.

We started off the day with a cold and rainy soccer game for Joshua. No matter how miserable the weather conditions they never complain. Everyone was just happy to be there for Joshua and cheer him on. They are good examples to me.

After the game, Maegan bought everyone hot chocolate and popcorn at the concession stand. She remembered to bring her money to do this. It was sweet.
I had her make bread today and she did it start-to-finish with no help from me! That was a first. She also managed to get 6 loaves out of the recipe where I usually only get five.

Because of Maegan, I could go to Christian's games later in the afternoon and we didn't have to get little ones out in the windy cold. While we were gone and the little guys were napping, she and her sisters made up a dance. A good use of time I think.

I had dinner in the crockpot to have ready after the games. The games went long and I called home to have them start dinner without us. When we got here everyone was eating nicely at the table. It was nice and peaceful when we joined them.

It is a blessing to have such a sweet daughter. Thank you Maegan, you're a good girl!! I love you.

Wednesday, May 03, 2006

See our May photos!

Here are some photos we have posted for May of the kiddos. We will use this same location for all our updates during this month...so, check back often!
http://thetaggs.smugmug.com/gallery/1419938

Here are April's:
http://thetaggs.smugmug.com/gallery/1386280

Sunday, April 30, 2006

My new phone!

I got a new cell phone!! It's a cute silver flip phone will all kinds of fancy options. The best part is that it was free! My old phone was so old that my phone company had to send me an upgrade. I didn't have to change plans or phone number or anything. It has been fun trying to figure it out. Right now I have the Scooby Doo theme song for my ring tone. It's not the old SD song though so I guess it must have come from the movie. I didn't see the movie so I don't know. I really would've preferred the George of the Jungle theme song...remember that cartoon? It's my favorite and we have a couple of the old VHS tapes so my kids (and me) can still watch them. Anyway, that song wasn't an option. If you have my cell phone number call me so I can hear it ring!!

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

Surprise!

It was too cold to have Mallory outside at the soccer game last night so I brought the little kids home early. SURPRISE!! There was my mother-in-law's car in the driveway! We knew she was planning on coming Friday but to come on Tuesday was a special surprise.

Today she is out shopping with Maegan, Laney, Joshua, and Jesse and getting caught up on b-days. They will all go out to lunch and have a fun day. Tomorrow she is going to do it again with the ones that stayed home today.

This promises to be a fun week with G'ma here.

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Merry Christmas!

Today is the 25th and everytime the 25th falls on a school day we celebrate Christmas. We don't do anything big, although I'm thinking it is a good excuse to make some special breakfast. We just read about the birth of Jesus for our Bible reading and revisit the topic again. We may sing a Christmas song or two and I might read a Christmas book to the little boys. I know it is a little strange but I got the idea from a conference I went to with a friend of mine. Repetition is good and it is a good excuse to celebrate Jesus again and any other month that it falls in the middle of the week.

I would like to expand this mini celebration but, like everything else, it seems to "sneak" up on me even though I've written it on the calendar. I would like to get out the little fiber optic tree we have to decorate the table and make a special breakfast. Oh well, maybe next month....if it is on a school day.

Home Improvement Day

I declared yesterday "Home Improvement Day". That meant we put the school books away and worked on home improvement projects. It was a good change of pace.

Mike has been reminding me about the unfinished painting project that I began so I thought I'd get moving on it. I picked another color called Toasted Cashew. Why do they always look better on the sample card?! Well I started painting and it looks so similar to the original color of my walls (off white) that it was nearly impossible to tell where I painted. That was quite a disappointment. I'm NOT doing this again so Toasted Cashew it is. At least I got rid of the dark green trim. However, when I painted over that the room looked a little like a public restroom or a hospital room. Big sigh..... SOOOO that just means I need new stuff to perk up the room, right? I have lots of ideas but the budget doesn't agree with me right now. Too bad. I will just do little stuff for the time being. I bought a couple of new frames on sale at Hobby Lobby so that's a start.

We also planted flowers yesterday. I thought it would be a good time since it was supposed to rain. I had Laney, Laura, and Joshua working on raking and planting. They look pretty.

The rain was wonderful and it tested the leak in the basement. It's still there. I was hoping that the unclogging of the french drain fixed it but it didn't. I have calls into two irrigation guys today. We'll see what they say.

Tonight is piano, game, and practice. That means lunch boxes! It also means no dinner dishes.

Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Col 1: 28-29

In my Bible reading this morning was this verse..

"We proclaim him, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone perfect in Christ. To this end I labor, struggling with all his energy, which so powerfully works in me." Col 1: 28-29

This verse has spurred me on this morning. My goal in life is summed up in these two sentences. I have 8 little people under my teaching and protection and I so want to present them to the Lord as perfect in Christ. That word "perfect" means mature or complete. And I strive to bring my children to maturity in Christ.

I get discouraged when I see a lack of maturity. Like when my 3yo growls at our dinner guest, or my 5yo does not seem to be able to read when I think he should. Reading this verse gives me renewed hope as I remember the reason why I persevere.

Did you see the last part? The part that says "struggling with all his energy". That part is especially exciting b/c it is His energy that powerfully works in me. That is good on these days when my morning starts at 4:30 with a baby girl that doesn't want to go back to sleep. I was surprised when I woke up this morning to her stirring and found that I wasn't very tired. When I read this verse this morning I understood. God has given me His energy to do this work He's given me.

Will I get tired today? Probably so. Will I get frustrated with that lack of maturity that I'm working on all day? Oh yes. But I have hope b/c of this precious word from the Lord and that helps me to look forward to getting started.

Lunch Boxes

Today is Tuesday and that means so much at our house. Tuesday is our very busy day. The girls have piano, Joshua has a game, and Christian has practice. Mike and Christian will not be home until around 8pm. The rest of us will be home around 7pm. Can you believe that we all actually like Tuesdays? We do!

I'm not sure if my girls like piano because of piano or because of their friends that they get to visit with when it is not their turn. I'm betting it is the latter. Everyone likes Joshua's games. He's such a go-getter and he always scores at least twice. That makes it really fun. Then there's Christian who loves anything SOCCER.

The problem with Tuesdays is that there is no time for dinner. Our solution....lunch boxes! When I first started this I had no idea how much my kids would like it. I guess when you homeschool a lunch box is a big deal b/c you don't get to do it often. Everyone has their own fun lunch box that they've picked out or gotten as a gift. They usually get to make their own lunch but sometimes Maegan chooses to make everyone's so that she can put a surprise in each one.

Since we've recently seen G'ma and G'pa we have lots of fun lunch box goodies. Laura's favorite is V8. If we don't have anything fun then I will try to make cookies or granola bars. Everyone likes having their very own ziploc bags of food. For some reason that is more fun than Mom just bringing a box of crackers for everyone to share. Who knows?

We will have our lunch boxes at the piano teacher's house. She has a big front yard with a great rope swing. I pull out the little boys' lawn chairs and they eat their lunches on their laps. It's even more fun for them b/c they never know what is packed in their lunch box!

Christian's soccer is very busy right now b/c they are gearing up for the State Cup in May. This means that we won't get to have dinner together so often. Eating together and talking around the table is so important to a family. Lunch boxes to the rescue! Mike's office has a pretty pond with a fountain. My boys call it "the ocean". They love going to the ocean for lunch. If we have a particularly busy week, we will take our lunch boxes up there and eat lunch with Dad. The kids look for frogs and throw rocks in the pond while Mike and I sit on the bench and talk. There's plenty of grass to play ball or frisbee. It's a fun time and a good alternative if you can't always have the traditional dinner evening.

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Happy Easter!

Praise the Lord! Resurrection Sunday is such a powerful day. We all went to church this morning and got to sit on the front row b/c we weren't early enough. The church was so full, the music was great, and I love the front row! We were able to meet a friend of Mike's from work and we had friends over for lunch.

Our pastor preached a bold message on Jesus. If you don't know Jesus and do not have the promise of eternal life and would like to, here's how....pray something like this...

"Lord Jesus, I confess I am a sinner and need you. I believe you are the Son of God, that you died for my sins and rose from the dead. Please come into my life to be my Lord and Savior. Amen" I know it sounds so simple and it is!! Isn't that wonderful!?

This friend of ours just returned from a mission trip to Mexico. He brought pictures and souvenirs and told us about his trip. It was a nice time.

Here was our Easter lunch menu...

Chicken and stuffing
Mashed Potatoes and gravy
Creamed spinach
Salad and corn
cheesecake and peanut butter pie

Tonight's dinner is DATE NIGHT!! As is every Sunday night at our house.



This is a little strange but it happens to me every year. I forget Easter! Can you believe it? Sometimes I forget Thanksgiving too! I turn the calendar page on the 1st of the month and see that Easter is only a couple of weeks away. I come up with a quick mental list of what I will do with the kids to prepare and celebrate. Life goes on but my plans don't. I forget!

I took the kids to the park for lunch Friday. I was surprised that it was so crowded. Mike reminded me that it was Good Friday and kids were out of school. Of course! Still that didn't really register with me until last night when I realized that Easter was tomorrow and I didn't do any of those things with the kids that I wanted to do.

As I said this seems to happen to me every year so it is nothing new. Another advantage of homeschooling is that I can still do it after the Holyday. That is what we will do...again.
Here are my plans that we WILL start tomorrow...

I will read aloud from my Bible the story of the resurrection. I also have a children's book titled Jesus Is Alive that I will read. We will sing some of the same songs we sang in church this morning and pray and thank Jesus again for his unfathomable grace and mercy toward us. I love the resurrection eggs and we will do those 2 or 3 times for the rest of April. I also have coloring sheets for my younger kids. We'll color eggs (too bad they aren't on sale THIS week!) and talk about new life. These are very simple things that we'll include with our regular school work for the rest of April....if I don't forget!

Do you know about the Resurrection Eggs? They are a dozen colored plastic eggs each containing a small plastic toy that represents a part of the resurrection. Each day you open one egg and read that portion of Scripture. They are fun b/c every egg is a surprise. You can buy these at Walmart.

God Bless you and Happy Resurrection Sunday!!

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

My baby's *new* bed

My new baby is not really considered new anymore. She is four months old. I love all the things associated with new babies. I love the smell of the teeny tiny newborn diapers, I love the alcohol preps on the belly button, I love that thin breath on my neck. Those days are gone already and I miss them. I especially miss the naps on my chest.

Nathan is consistently sleeping in the boys' room now. It was time to move Mallory downstairs to sleep in the crib. For the first few nights we just kept everything the same and sort of exchanged one baby for another. Since she did so well I decided to make it more permanent. It was time to put on her (new pink!!) bedding and move the mattress. Bending down to the bottom to pick up a heavy baby is a killer on the back!

When Mike finished moving the mattress up to the top my heart leaped for joy! An unexpected new baby thing that I forgot I loved!! I love having the mattress all the way up to the top of the crib. Everything about it means new baby. It doesn't last long b/c as soon as baby starts pushing up you have to lower the mattress. But for now the mattress is up at the top and I absolutely LOVE it.

My New Organizational Tool

At our house we hate putting away clean laundry. Everyone is responsible for putting away their own clothes plus their little buddy's. I think Christian and I dislike it more than anyone else. We do laundry throughout the day and as soon as I put away my stack it seems that there is another stack right behind it!

I went to Walmart and bought everyone their own laundry basket and put their name on it. For the little kids with little clothes I found small baskets at the dollar store. In the morning we line up all the baskets in birth order in the parlor...that is where we fold all the clothes. Throughout the day we fill the baskets with clean clothes as well as whatever else is lying around that belongs to someone else....shoes, toys, etc.

Around 4pm we straighten up the house before Mike comes home. At that time everyone takes their own basket, plus their little buddy's, and puts away whatever is in them. They are responsible for making sure their basket and little buddy's basket gets back up to the laundry room for tomorrow. Since they have names on them it's easy to tell who forgot!!

The first day of the new system didn't go so well. There were baskets everywhere! It took some fine tuning but I think we all got it now. Of course there are still baskets out all day but they are lined up neatly and don't look so disorganized. Also there are not stray socks or 9 different piles of clothes all over the room. The house is also neater b/c there is a central place to dump daily clutter. The best thing is that we only have to put away laundry once!! Christian and I really like that one!

Monday, April 10, 2006

Happy Birthday Nathan!

Have you ever been part of a two-year-old's birthday? It is so precious. Maegan made him an adorable turtle cake that turned out so cute. When it was time to blow out the candles, he knew just what to do. He waited until the Happy Birthday song was over and blew with all his heart. His little lips were inside out and he spit all over his cake. Candles were still aglow. After a few more tries, his big brothers helped him out. Jesse could barely contain himself as he considers himself to be the official candle-blower-outer of the house. It was a fun and sweet time.

Happy Birthday Nathan!! We love you!

Sunday, April 09, 2006

Nathan's Last Day

Today Nathan is one. Tomorrow he will be two.

I know that his birthday will be fun and I am looking forward to having a two-year-old in the house again. The problem is that I will miss my one-year-old. It is always the day before the birthday that I think on the most. I ask myself questions like ... did I use this year with him the best way that I could? Did I spend enough time with him? How can I be a better mom to him next year? I also spend the day calling him "one year old" since I will never be able to do that again. Lord willing, I will have another one-year-old since Mallory is right behind him but she will not be the same one-year-old as Nathan.

Here's some sweet stuff about my one-year-old....

~Nathan likes to sleep with his glow worm, red blankey, and a couple of cars.

~He speaks in sentences, signs, and can use the potty.

~He can sit nicely through a whole church service.

~He likes to ride in the car.

~He has been known to stuff the potty with toilet paper.

~He is starting to sing....what a joyful noise it is!

~He loves talking on the phone and reading books.

Here are is b-day meals
breakfast: orange rolls and juice
lunch : vegetable soup and crackers
dinner: Pizza
dessert: a turtle cake with strawberry ice cream

Tomorrow I will be the mom of a two year old. Today I'm enjoying my one year old.

Saturday, April 08, 2006

Mom is visiting this weekend. It is the perfect time since Mike is out of town with the boys. I don't really care for the weekends at home without them so I'm especially glad that she is here now.

It will be a fun weekend of shopping, eating out, and playing with babies. As a matter of fact, Mom is out at the mall with the girls now. The babies got tired so I had to bring them home for a nap. I know Maegan will especially enjoy this b/c I don't like the mall. She LOVES the mall. Having G'ma take her to the mall is a huge treat b/c G'ma will shop around and take her time. When I go to the mall, I get what I'm getting and get out!!

Mike, Christian, Joshua, and Jesse are in Little Rock at a soccer tournament. This is the first time that the little boys have gotten to go. They will have a great time, especially since Mike might take them to the zoo!! I'll let ya know.....

Saturday, April 01, 2006

The Great Clothes Exchange

It is time to take out the winter clothes and bring in the shorts. I can not tell you what a big job this is! I am in the middle of it now.

After years of practice I finally have this down to a minimal of work. Before, I would have clothes upstairs, downstairs, and everywhere inbetween. It would take about 3 weeks to finish and I would be in a bad mood the whole time!

Last year something changed. As I was going through the mountain of clothes that had been in the attic I was complaining in my heart the whole time. I felt that gentle word of the Lord that said "Be thankful." Thankful! Of course. As I began to look through the clothes I realized that I had not purchased ANY of them. All of them had been given to me by someone else! We even get the socks and underwear that G'ma finds on sale occasionally! What is NOT to be thankful for that? I realized what a great provision this was from the Lord. My whole attitude changed as well as the way I did my work.

I can now do the big exchange in about 3 days with no grumpy attitude. I am glad for all these cute clothes that we did not have to buy. Mike is glad b/c there are not clothes in every corner for weeks. The kids are glad b/c Momma is smiling and not fussing at everyone. Mike calls that the "splash effect".