Our New School Year (Part 2) And Our Fallen Tiger Update

Look at his progress!

He had a dr. appt Friday and all is looking good.  No surgery needed.  Just rest and continue with the crutches.  Again, the worst part of all of it for him is being out for the season.  

But he dressed out and supported his team Friday night and helped them pull off a huge win against Ozark.  I think it made him feel better to be around his football peeps for the night.  

He can sit up a little bit now and that means he has the freedom to ride in the car.  He can also put one shoe on without help and even walk without crutches.  He is still not able to bend much but every day seems a little better.....so we're getting there!

His school work is mostly done on the couch right now since he can't sit at the table for very long. But it's just one of the perks of homeschooling.  This is his sophomore year and my greatest goal for him is ACT prep/practice/testing.  He's not my greatest tester so we will need plenty of time.  As for his day-to-day, it looks like this.....

English- Easy Peasy, Wordly Wise, Spelling Power 
Government - Easy Peasy
Biology - Easy Peasy
NT Bible with Dad
OT Bible with Mom
Math - Saxon and Teaching Textbooks
Misc. art studies
Football

As you can see, we are hitting the basics hard and heavy.  This seems to be the best option in the high school grades.

Easy Peasy is brand-new for us this year.  I stumbled onto it when I was planning school this summer. I'm using it for all my kids in various ways this year and so far it is a great fit.

Spelling Power and Wordly Wise are my old-faithfuls.  They have served us well for many years now.  And even though EP may be fairly complete, I feel like it's still a good use of his time to have this additional work.

He's also doing 2 different math programs; algebra and geometry simultaneously.  He may be feeling just a little bit sorry for himself for this one!! 

A Timely Word

For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up...Ecc. 4:10

A very great friend of mine posted this on Facebook last night.  It was such a reminder of friendship, love, and support when I really needed it.  And don't you just love how God does that?  He takes the Word you know and speaks it to you in a fresh and different way making it entirely new again.  And at just the right time, y'all!!  

That is what is meant in Heb 4:12, "For the Word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double edged sword."  

The body of Christ is one of God's greatest gifts to the believer.  
Because sometimes there are just no words.  
Sometimes emotions are too raw.  
Sometimes there is too much anger fury.  

But even that doesn't seem to matter to God.  He meets you in the mess.  And one of ways He does that is through His people. 

I am so humbled and thankful for all the ways God continually shows His love.  Over and over and over again.  

When It's Not Somebody Else's Kid

I had been looking forward to Friday for quite awhile.

The Tigers took on Little Rock Episcopal three hours away.  After some discussion, we decided to stay the night since Honey was also leaving for Dallas the next day.

A big car ride alone with my man.
An awesome Tiger football game.
Watching my boy kick.
A night in a hotel.

Yeah, it was a lot to look forward to.

The car ride was just as great as I hoped.  So nice to have a conversation without a toddler in between us or an older kid hovering and waiting for their chance to jump in.  3 hours worth!

The game started off just the way I like it....touchdown after touchdown.  And the man in front of me commented that the band would be worn out by half time!  It was clear a mercy rule was in the future.

But then.

Right in the middle of a kickoff my boy hit the ground.
And it was the worst feeling ever.  Especially when he wouldn't get up.
Because first of all, that's always somebody else's kid.  NOT MINE!
Both teams took a knee.
The crowd hushed.
The game stopped.
The coaches and trainers were working on him.
And I was praying.  HOW CAN THE KICKER GET HURT??

He finally got up with lots of help and hobbled to the side.  But there was no hobbling off the field all the way to the car and he had to be carted off.

My gosh. 

So it was time to go home.  

We left at the half with the score of something ridiculous like 42-6.  

Joshua couldn't bend at all so we had to put the seats down in the Explorer and have him lie down the whole way.  He was in a lot of pain but did well in the car.  

So this morning we went to the urgent care clinic for an x-ray.



Turns out he tore a ligament and some bone tissue from his hip and will be out for the rest of the season.  Let me tell you....that news brought some tears.  Monday we make an appointment with the orthopedic doctor to see what's next.



In the meantime, this set of crutches has given him some freedom and brought his smile back.  He still can't sit.  He can only stand or lie down.  But at least he can take himself wherever he wants without help.  We are praying for a very speedy and complete recovery.

Our New School Year Part 1

Summer 2016 was the best ever.  In between all the fun I spent some time praying and brain storming our upcoming school year.  I took 6 pages of notes and looked at all sorts of new books online.  I watched homeschool moms review curricula I was interested in on You Tube and I slowly started to work a new schedule.

Public school in my town started a week earlier than my college kids.  I wasn't about to waste a second of summer break with them so we waited and started at the same time.  That's actually a little early for me since I will usually wait until after Labor Day.  But this year I was antsy to start.  Too long of a break, no matter how awesome, doesn't do us any favors.

We always start with our Back To School Party.  And almost every year it is raining or my personal favorite....we lose power.  This year was no exception.  It was raining.  Maybe that's a good sign for a good year.  I don't know.  Anyway the pictures are dark.



This is one of my favorite things ever.  It's almost like second Christmas and I get so excited about school supplies.



And I didn't forget our babies.

The next day was THE DAY.
Laney started her junior year in college.  Half way done!  And I'm so incredibly proud of her.  It is awesome to watch her succeed the way she has.

And Laura is a newbie on campus this year.  I know she'll do great.

Christian is also a junior.  He has lots of leadership roles in the college and basically started the year with a big interview at a fancy place working in his field.  Second interview this week!

We are now in week 3 and college kids are busier than ever.  All working and schooling.   And all of them are doing great.

Next up, I'll show you some of our school for this year and the pretty faces that go with it!  .......

A Happy Birthday Texas Trip

Just take a look at these beauties!!  

This is my grandmother (middle) and her two sisters about 70 years ago.  Aren't they just the cutest? 

And this weekend we went to Texas to help them celebrate their 86, 88, and 90th birthdays. 

Being an only child, I have no idea what it's like to have sisters but it seems such a great blessing that they still have each other (and love each other) after all these years.  

I tell my kids all the time that their siblings are the only people that will know them from the cradle to the grave.  PLEASE cherish those relationships kids!!  It is a blessing to know and to be known.

We asked them to tell us stories from their lives and my favorite one was this...

When they were little girls they had a front porch with a low rafter.  They would stand on a chair, jump and grab the rafter, and swing out.  One day Momma caught them and said, "Stop jumping off that chair, you're gonna get hurt."  Well Aunt Nay (middle) said, "She said not to jump off the chair, but she didn't say anything about this box."  So they got a big box and jumped and grabbed and swang until Aunt Nay fell off and broke her arm! Her arm had to be casted for a long time and when the cast was off her arm was still bent.  She was supposed to straighten it by carrying around a bucket of sand everyday.  Each day they would add a little more sand to the bucket.  But Aunt Nay didn't like to carry the bucket.  It was heavy and it hurt her arm.  So Aunt Roxie, being such a good sister carried the bucket for her!! 

And even though this picture is not the best, it brings tears to my eyes.  Aunt Roxie helping Aunt Nay with her sweater.  So so very precious. 

My Aunt Barbara came from California for the party too.  I hardly ever get to see her and we found ourselves with lots of time just to visit and catch up.  I loved every word of it.

My parents spoiled us rotten and we had the best time.   Mom took us to the park and the splash pad.  Baby Boy LOVED this and it kept him happy all morning.  Can you see how big he's getting?

And one more.....
Mallory's favorite reading nook at Grandma's.  It's a huge space in the blanket closet that she has to hoist herself up into and snuggle down.  

Thank you to my family for such a wonderful time.  And HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my grandmother and my aunts.  I love you all!!  

A School Supply PSA

I LOVE school supplies!!  So. Much.

I get so excited to see them on the aisles in the store and I start planning months in advance.  Then Laney and I take a day to shop for everyone.  They never know what they will get and it's all a big surprise.

I am approaching our 20th year of homeschooling.

Twenty Years Y'all.

And twenty years will teach you a couple of things.  As we were shopping this year, I was reminded of a few school items that are absolutely a waste of money.

1.  Off-brand crayons.  Spend an extra quarter and buy Crayola.  The other ones are waxy, break easily, and the colors are not right.  They aren't even fun to use.

2.  Cheap 3 ring binders.  Yes, they will hold the papers.  Yes, the good ones are expensive.  But the cheap ones are cheap.  The rings are not tight and soon the outside folder part will bend in the middle and break at the seam.  The heavy duty Avery binders will last a long time.

3.  Fancy pencils.  You know those pretty pencils that come in all those cute designs.  You can buy a whole pack at the dollar store.  All pencils are not the same and those are the worst.  They are nearly impossible to sharpen correctly and that pretty foil design will tear up your pencil sharpener.  And since I've had the worst time keeping a good pencil sharpener running for an entire year, I avoid those cheap pencils at all cost.

It doesn't cost a whole lot more to buy the good school supplies and they will last you much longer.  That means you won't have to replace them in January when they won't be on sale!

Today is the first day of public school in my town.  I'm so excited for these kiddos and praying for all the great teachers this year.

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Hello everybody this is Joshua on moms blog cuz she left it on and just went somwhere else. anyway i have the coolest mom in the world and i love her:)

Four Faves This Week

ONE~ As if the summer hasn't been great enough, we have also had a lot of guests to make it even more awesome.

We haven't gotten to see the cousins in 7 years.  SEVEN YEARS since we moved back to Arkansas and this is the first time we've gotten to see them again.  They were so little when we left and now they are practically grown!

TWO~ A tractor ride for date night!  We have a bee hive at my inlaw's and it's fun to take the tractor back there to mow and check on it.  

THREE~ My boy's clean room.  AND the cute baby in the picture that is walking, jabbering, and making our life better than it was before.  

FOUR~ I was cleaning out my nightstand and ran across this little chalkboard that Shelley gave me years ago.  It was a reminder to live our lives free by "erasing" all the hurts, disappointments, and irritations of the day and start the next day with a clean slate.  

It's Almost Not Summer Anymore

It's almost over.

Summer 2016 has been the best yet.  We have packed it FULL with all kinds of trips and activities and people and fun.  We have one more week of company coming then it is back to real life and busy and normal days.

But I'm ready.  Or at least I'm getting ready.  The lazy moments of summer with a loose schedule start to make me antsy.  It never seems like I've done enough by the end of the day.  I talk too much and move too little.  And that's not really how I like to live life.

So I am almost finished with school planning and Laney and I need to shop.  This is always a highlight of our summer.  She and I LOVE to do the kids back-to-school shopping together.

Public school starts Monday and college starts the next Monday.  Our friends from Colorado will be here Saturday and that'll be our last hurrah before starting school on the 22nd.  You know what else is Saturday?

TIGER FOOTBALL!!

And you know that's its own thing.

Summer is waning and fall is around the corner.  And I can't wait.

Kansas City!

I'm smiling all over as I type this out.  This trip was so fun and I'm going to love retelling it all. First off please excuse my overuse of the word FUN because you will be reading it a lot.

I had been looking forward to this for a few weeks.  Our anniversary was coming and my parents were amazing and gave us money for a weekend away.  I KNOW!!  And they babysat.  AND cooked all the things.  It was the first time we'd been away by ourselves in 13 years.  So yeah.  I was kinda excited.



It worked out so perfect to go to Kansas City because I've been wanting to go anyway plus the US National team was playing there on our actual anniversary night!  SO AWESOME! 

Before we even checked into our hotel we stopped at Ikea.  I've never been.  It was huge and I felt like I needed a ticket to attend this big event.  It was every bit as fabulous as everyone says.  I loved all the stuff.  ALL THE STUFF.  We took pictures and made notes and got lots of ideas. 

We checked into our beautiful hotel and really y'all.....I felt like I was going to cry the second I saw it.  Everything was perfectly clean and in order and neat and perfect.  So absolutely completely different from my real life of scattered laundry and sticky tables.  I loved it.

Then we headed to Cabelas. That was fun too.  

I especially loved the fish tank.  And this guy!!  It's not a great picture of him but he was pretty cute.  

The taxidermy stuff was incredible!  I had no idea I'd love Cabelas as much as I did. 

Our hotel was walking distance from the field.  So nice!  And the weather was hot but not too humid so it was bearable and walking was no big deal.



The next morning, we explored the town and saw the new Star Trek.  The theater was so nice with leather recliners! And the movie did not disappoint.  We ate and shopped and walked and had a fun day.

Then it was GAME TIME!  And I got a Hope Solo shirt.  She's my fave.



Our seats were pretty good too.





The game was fantastic and we won 4-0!  Hope barely touched the ball since it was always on the OTHER SIDE OF THE FIELD.



Another night in our very clean hotel and then it was time to pack up.



A shot of his new Alex Morgan shirt!



This trip was absolutely perfect and so much fun.  We HAVE to do it again!!

When You Bite The Dust

"For though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked are brought down by calamity."  Prov 24:16

Fostering makes me feel like this guy who keeps falling over and over again.  The crazy balance of family life and trying to help broken kids heal and adjust has made me stake my claim on this verse lately.  It holds so much hope.

It doesn't say "when a righteous man slips, or trips, or stumbles.  It says he falls.  He wipes out.  He busted.  And not once or twice.  Several times!

But then he gets back up.  And he gets back up again.  And again.  He doesn't wallow around in self-pity or believe the lie that he is a failure.  His identity is not in question.  He is still righteous.   He is still God's man.

And he keeps going.

Another Year DONE

VBS 2016 is DONE!  It was not perfect.  But it was wonderful. 

It may not surprise you that I was more than a little interested in the food portion of it. 

Being farm themed, we got lots of fresh fruit and vegetables.  Those were my favorite days. 

But who wouldn't also love these cheese ball carrots and cereal corn cobs? 

So cute! 

And these chicky cupcakes!!  I can't even. 

Speaking of cute!...

So all week long the classes were accumulating points for attendance, bringing Bibles, bringing a friend, tithing, and memorizing Bible verses.  At the end of the week there was a prize for the class with the most points.  

Guess who won.

And guess what? It was my first year ever that I didn't have the worst behaved class. 

I KNOW. 

The only thing I can figure is that there were too many girls.  The boys still outnumbered them, but it was almost equal.  Girls tend to balance it all out.  

I think my kiddos were sad it was over. 

There were a lot of, "This was my favorite church time." 

"I love coming here." 

"This was fun." 

And yes.  Yes it was fun. 

Laney had a brilliant idea.  Let the kids take home their favorite flower to make the clean up easier. 

STROKE. OF. GENIUS.  They took every flower, every leaf, every bee.   And what took days to create was disassembled in a matter of minutes. 

So it's over.  And now comes the part where I dissect the whole week and think of the millions of things I couldn't done better.   And also the part where I wish I could be a bigger and longer-lasting part of their lives.  

Someday SOMEDAY I'm pretty sure I will tackle second grade Sunday School.

VBS 2016

Vacation Bible School 2016 is still going strong. 

This year I have second grade.  I LOVE second grade.  The kids are super cute.  They aren't into too much drama yet.  And they aren't too cool to participate in all the fun.

My boy doing what he does.
Christian always runs VBS games and does a great job at it.

Zeke keeps winning the prizes.  

These are some of my faves.  And they happen to be Zeke's baseball buds from last season. 

Painting bird houses and looking beautiful at the same time.



Aren't these twins the cutest?

My favorite moment of the day was when we were in class time.  I had them listen with their eyes so I could tell they were paying attention.  Then I laid out the salvation story in all it's awesomeness and they were super attentive and interested.  I tried to soak it all in as I was praying for THEM to soak it all in.  I love teaching my class again.